I liked your post, but I don't like what you're describing...
Only because it sounds very familiar... when we moved to Texas, it's been difficult to meet with people IRL that we really identify with.
It's been the hardest part of moving here...
Let us know if we can put y'all in touch witb IRL people that are local... from what I've read, there are lots of people that would be honored to know you and your family.
At least take comfort that I know my wife would get along witb you personally... and I should know, we've been best friends for >28 years.
Take care...
Luny I live less than 16 mi from Canton. We need to get together some time.