I agree many have sacrificed much much more. However, like many people here, I have a family that depends on me to provide for them. I want to give my wife and children the best I can. Starting a new career at this point is not something I’d like to do but I am also not a lab rat. Thanks for your comment.You know after 50 pages of posts we hope that you can make a decision and I have heard a lot of whining on this post. It's not like you are about to be drafted into the army to get your butt shot off in Viet Nam. Either get the shot or quit your job, that's what it comes down to. You have it a lot easier than what men have had in the past.