Axxe55
Retiretgtshit stirrer
My unsolicited advise. Get reeeeealllllyyyy comfortable at being alone. Become you own best friend. Treat yourself to - whatever. Once you can do that, on an extended basis, you "might" be ready for another relationship. Fools rush in....
A friend gave me pretty much the same advice after my first divorce. It does work. Now don't get me wrong, I still did enjoy the company of female companionship, but I knew I was no where ready for any serious relationship. I was single for over four years before I got remarried again to ex-wife #2, and after divorcing her, about two years before marrying the current Mrs. Axxe. This year, she and I celebrated 17 years together. And it's been great.