I don’t disagree, I can appreciate it’s a problem. However until something is done I have to follow the law.I
I hear you and what you describe is obviously wrong and I can't agree with your suggestion to accept it as a fact of life. I don't accept we have to sheepishly tolerate thuggish behaviour from those we entrust to safeguard us.
It's always "tell it to the judge", "the side of the highway isn't the place", "change the law of you don't like it", "just following orders", "Officer's discretion", the list of excuses is endless and doesn't dismiss personal responsibility.
It's incumbent upon LE to conduct themselves as a sterling example despite the challenges of their chosen profession and in exchange we grant them extensive authority, privilege and leeway. When that trust is abused it's doubly concerning for those very reasons.
Therein lies the problem, accepting the unacceptable changes nothing for the better but I likewise don't accept open, candid discussion isn't, albeit minor, doing nothing.
I want police to be safe, they've never done anything for me directly but it's an incredibly important job and I support them, with some reservation as I've described. That said it's a very difficult job but not everyone approaches it with the same level of respect and integrity.
"Well that's just how it is" grants tacit license to further and greater abuses. Conversation can well result in consensus and that's when real change happens.
OTOH I’ve personally not always thought that way and would buck the system every chance I got, that got me nowhere in a hurry. At this point in my life I have to much to loose to gamble my fate in the hands of anyone else.
There are definitely things that need to change and proper ways to do that. For me opening a door for a cop with a gun in my hand is not the way to change it. These have been ongoing problems for years and only recently being brought out thanks to cameras, that’s been a decent start but a lot more can be done.