txinvestigator
TGT Addict
I'd want to know too.
Fair warning though: Some parents are put off that you're "complaining" about their kids when you're really trying to help them.
The most powerful force for good in my early adulthood was my grandfather's respect. He led by example and was the best man I've ever met in my life, hands down. I could give a ton of examples of great things he did, and still can't think of one where he didn't go above and beyond to do the right thing. I'm sure he had faults, but I had the utmost respect for him. I would literally stop and think about what he would think of me if I got caught doing what I was about to do. Point being: more important than any of these precautions is leading by example. You can't be there 24-7.
you are so right. Telling your kids not to drink while you put away your daily six pack is not a receipe for success. Nor is telling them to be honest when you realize you got change for a twenty but paid with with a ten, and you keep it, etc.
I also try to keep in mind that discipline is from the word disciple, and is more about leading and teaching than punishment.