I get what you are saying, but I wouldn't call going to your car at 3 am a poor choice. I mean, was going to the car a poor choice, or was the time of day a poor choice? Because for some people, 3am is just like 3pm to the average person. I happen to be one of those people. For me to come and go at all hours of the day/night, is a pretty common thing. To not do that would be to not live my life, pretty much. I've always been that way, either voluntarily (just because I am a night person, not a drinker and don't go to bars, but just like the city better when less people are out and about), or because I worked insane and unpredictable hours.
agreed, and like I told him in the first place. I HAD to go to my car at 3am, for work. I was having a meeting with a person who works with us and lives in India, so I had to stay up and talk to him. Plus, it was like a Tuesday night.....I definitely wasn't expecting a large group of people partying on a Tuesday.