But nothing makes it workboug smoother than a living trust.
There were no issues, either for mom when dad passed, or us when she did. I hadn't realized everything involved in the living trust - to be fair, most of the hassles were of their own doing....they bought and sold a number of properties in the later years, and mom generally got a new car every year or two - that was the biggest gripe dad had - all the paperwork. Either way, it was their call to make as far as I was concerned.