Yeah me and the wife are different in that regard.
I have a trait that’s really not good at all…but I can literally write people off with the snap of my fingers, and never even think about them again.
I’ve likely done it too many times…mostly justified, at least in the moment, but that spirit of forgiveness can be lost on me
I have the same trait, if you have wronged me, but especially if you've wronged my parents or my niece I can literally forget you are a human being with a snap of my fingers.