Feel free to enlighten me to as where I was disrespectful to you in any way or form...
I found the fact that you chose to argue with several other members while ignoring the fact that I answered each of your questions to be somewhat disrespectful. I also felt that Vaquero gave you an honest answer. It wasn't the one you wanted, but it was honest.
By the way, maybe the one rule in the Code of Conduct that allows things to get off topic ("We aren't going to enforce any stringent on/off topic rules. So long as the thread is progressing and people are getting the info they need we don't mind if it ends up in left field.") is the root of the problem. It is too prevalent across the forum despite there even being a section for it.
The ability for threads to wander is a big part of what attracts people to TGT. There are lots of forums that enforce "on topic" posting rules and a lot of folks here who find those forums rather dull. It's really what makes TGT.
It also allows thread to move beyond the specific question in the first post. Much of what I've learned on this forum has come from a topic that wandered in to another area. You are able to gain much more through participation in a thread than if it were locked down to the specific topic of the OP.
This is something that has been since the beginning, I highly doubt there will be any change or that TGT would have been 1/10th as successful without it.
It is a cause of confusion
Not that I've noticed, but would be interested to hear of it causing issues or examples.
and honestly I don't see how anyone can moderate fairly with that rule present.
I don't see why not.
There needs to be a decision, either you are going to allow a free-for-all or there is going to be some effort to keep things on track
I don't think we have to choose between zero tolerance (nobody is happy) or anarchy (nobody is happy). We hold somewhere on the middle where most are happy.
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Right now many threads are being closed for simply the "potential" of going off topic which is allowed per your own Code of Conduct.
I'm not aware of any closed for the potential of simply going be off topic, maybe there was a greater reason. Such as preventing lots of childish bickering.
Mods are not here to make up or apply the rules as they want, they should simply be enforcers of the standards that have been set forth in each and every case. Otherwise, it's hypocritical...
Yes and no. Mods do work to make the forum the best it can be. Sometimes this means the consideration of adding or removing rules. Generally to be approved by admin or owner.
I'm not sure of any examples of applying rules as we want. We apply them as they need to be. Not all of the standards are black and white and not all posts will obviously violate a rule, nor will some violations be obvious. For that reason it comes to a judgment on the part of the moderator(s). The only way around this is Zero Tolerance, and Zero Tolerance policies have terrible track records in every application. The whole forum would be banned. I don't see this as hypocritical, simply realistic.
You are obviously unhappy with certain aspects of the forum, however the changes you wish for would likely create much more disruption among many more members.
I appreciate your feedback.