Liar!
You got me there.... she is NOT at the top.
However, she is the one most often ignored. As a caregiver of a dementia patient, you just gotta roll with a lot. Today, she wants to let all the grass die. Yesterday she wanted to put rock all over the top of the grass in the backyard. But normally it's just things like "you should lose weight", "you really need to stop eating hot dogs", stuff like that.