My mother's cancer has returned

[pronstar]

Hard to say this but you don't have the right to keep her prognosis from her. She must be able to make her own decisions about further treatment. I know you think you are right but let her make her choices.

Ooof…but I can see your point.

If I think about what I would want to know/not know if it was me…I honestly can’t answer.

But it sure hits me right in the feels just thinking about it.

More prayers coming your way OP

 

[Lead Belly]

I can't imagine. Prayers to your entire family.

 

[Chupacabra Hunter]

Sorry to hear…. Do what you think is the right thing to do. Prayers.


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[seeker_two]

Praying for y'all....

 

[sparkyv]

Prayers sent for your Mother and your family.

 

[oldag]

I have know several people whose spouse died of cancer. Went through all the chemo, radiation, etc. They later regretted having encouraged their spouse to go through the treatments. There was no quality of life in the added years. The treatments were hard on them. Sick, exhausted most of the time.

 

[oldag]

OP, may the Good Lord send His peace to you and your mother.

 

[AZ Refugee]

Prayers for you and her

 

[popsgarland]

If your mother is happy doing the things she wants to and is not thinking about dying, then you are doing right
not telling her. Let her be happy not sad in her last days,months,years left on the earth.

 

[2ManyGuns]

Hard to say this but you don't have the right to keep her prognosis from her. She must be able to make her own decisions about further treatment. I know you think you are right but let her make her choices.

She has the desire to live, the drive. If she knew that she could not win, despair may set in, and that will, that tenacity may cease.

 

[2ManyGuns]

I have know several people whose spouse died of cancer. Went through all the chemo, radiation, etc. They later regretted having encouraged their spouse to go through the treatments. There was no quality of life in the added years. The treatments were hard on them. Sick, exhausted most of the time.

She wants to fight it, she wants to live and do things. That choice was hers alone, I just did not take away her hope.


Thanks again for all the prayers, this AM she is in a pretty good mood.

 

[oldag]

She wants to fight it, she wants to live and do things. That choice was hers alone, I just did not take away her hope.


Thanks again for all the prayers, this AM she is in a pretty good mood.

If she is the one that wants to fight it, you are great in supporting her.