found it was an SMTP server issue. so all should be finally good. we thought switching to vbulletin sending emails out would fix it, it really did not. however the folks that watch the server, etc found the issue.
Profanity filter is stuck on. Another odd thing is that there are two separate profanity filter options in my profile.
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Shit2nd option gone, can you choose now?
My profanity filter is off, yet I can't post the word ******* in another thread.
ETA - Lemme try arsehole.
ETA2 - OK, that's a workaround.