Long story Short version.
My wife and her sister were born a year apart on the same day. After her sister was born, 1965, she was healthy and in perfect condition. Her mom held her etc. They took her for some testing and came back saying she died and her dad signed papers for cremation. She, wife mom, never saw a death certificate or filled out any papers for birth or death certs. Nor was she able to secure remains she desperately wanted.
I dont want to air dirty laundry of deceased people but suffice it to say the dad didnt want more kids and the dads mom didnt either. Before the dads mom died a few years back she said someone needs to find Dawn my wife's sister.
My wife and her mom always thought she did not die and was signed over for adoption by the dad and his mom signing as the birth mom. Ofcourse this would be in a quasi illegal adoption scam not to mention what it says about those two.
From what I've been able to find out there was quite alot of this all over the country at the time, new tv series about it even. Also he was in the navy and I've heard naval officers adopted babies like this and there were quite a few incidents like this at the time.
I havnt had access to any ncic or like databases since before I met my wife and I couldnt have used them like this to begin with as its Illegal. Even if it wasnt I wouldnt have used it like this cause every dept or agency I worked for had rules against such things, were not talking looking up a license plate of some girl here. Besides I have what some call a weakness or fatal flaw, I'm honest. Hell the only times I ever got in trouble I told on myself. I'd turn my own mother in if she did something wrong. Not as hard as you would think my moms a...unique person.
I need to try to take this to a next level of investigation. There is supposed to be a birth and death certificate but I've never been able to find a complete one only databases saying they exist. If anyone is a private investigator or knows one I would like to at least consult about a good process.
Another reason I'm looking for help is This happend in Solano county CA in Nov of 65. I understand lots of stuff can be found in internet searches and internet based background checks but I havnt really done anything like this in a while and I dont want to pay 3 times for the same stuff or fly to hell in cali for research if I can help it. Also I would want to search some adoption records and there are strict rules for that.
Any help would be great. This is important to my wife and shes important to me and I cant just watch this eat her up with not knowing.
Oh, we will be doing the DNA kits of 2 or 3 places used for this but there are only a few million people in those.
Thanks in advance. All my contacts in this area are back in AZ and long time gone.
I guess I lied about the short part. Cliff notes version I guess.
My wife and her sister were born a year apart on the same day. After her sister was born, 1965, she was healthy and in perfect condition. Her mom held her etc. They took her for some testing and came back saying she died and her dad signed papers for cremation. She, wife mom, never saw a death certificate or filled out any papers for birth or death certs. Nor was she able to secure remains she desperately wanted.
I dont want to air dirty laundry of deceased people but suffice it to say the dad didnt want more kids and the dads mom didnt either. Before the dads mom died a few years back she said someone needs to find Dawn my wife's sister.
My wife and her mom always thought she did not die and was signed over for adoption by the dad and his mom signing as the birth mom. Ofcourse this would be in a quasi illegal adoption scam not to mention what it says about those two.
From what I've been able to find out there was quite alot of this all over the country at the time, new tv series about it even. Also he was in the navy and I've heard naval officers adopted babies like this and there were quite a few incidents like this at the time.
I havnt had access to any ncic or like databases since before I met my wife and I couldnt have used them like this to begin with as its Illegal. Even if it wasnt I wouldnt have used it like this cause every dept or agency I worked for had rules against such things, were not talking looking up a license plate of some girl here. Besides I have what some call a weakness or fatal flaw, I'm honest. Hell the only times I ever got in trouble I told on myself. I'd turn my own mother in if she did something wrong. Not as hard as you would think my moms a...unique person.
I need to try to take this to a next level of investigation. There is supposed to be a birth and death certificate but I've never been able to find a complete one only databases saying they exist. If anyone is a private investigator or knows one I would like to at least consult about a good process.
Another reason I'm looking for help is This happend in Solano county CA in Nov of 65. I understand lots of stuff can be found in internet searches and internet based background checks but I havnt really done anything like this in a while and I dont want to pay 3 times for the same stuff or fly to hell in cali for research if I can help it. Also I would want to search some adoption records and there are strict rules for that.
Any help would be great. This is important to my wife and shes important to me and I cant just watch this eat her up with not knowing.
Oh, we will be doing the DNA kits of 2 or 3 places used for this but there are only a few million people in those.
Thanks in advance. All my contacts in this area are back in AZ and long time gone.
I guess I lied about the short part. Cliff notes version I guess.
