If someone is serious about leaving, they will find a way to leave.
If someone is serious about their personal safety, they avoid situations that can easily be predicted to become unsafe....
Game planning should always involve handicapping the odds ahead of time.
Simply wanting to be involved/ participate/ support without considering the risks is a game played by the young and invincible.
My point is that if you want to take a stand, considering the consequences should be part of the plan.